Anyway, Saturday was the party. Up until the week of her party she was changing her mind on what the theme would be. First she wanted a Tangled party, then a Hello Kitty party, then just a cat theme, then back to Hello Kitty, then Dora...etc. Finally I said, "Clare, how about not having a theme and instead we'll just have a really fun party with lots of games and a yummy cake?" She was all for that and told us that she wanted a white cake with strawberries in the middle and the only game she insisted on was limbo. Oh, and she wanted the butterfly pinata we had seen at Target. Done. So we invited her nearest cousins, aunts, uncles and grandparents over on a beautiful Saturday morning for what we hoped would be a super fun day. We started out with a limbo contest that Clare ended up winning (she's a smart one, that kid!) then moved onto the pinata and finally a fishing game in which the kids had a fishing pole with a big hook that they sent over a sheet where Brent and I would send back either a great catch (toys and candy) or a not so good one (stinky socks, boots, etc.). After lunch was eaten, the candles on the cake blown and all the pretty presents had been torn open, we sat around and visited while the kids played. The park next to us was having a winter fun weekend in which there was cross-country skiing, skating and of course, sledding down the big dike across the street. We watched a competition they had from our front window of homemade box sleds--some very impressively decorated I might add--racing down the hill. Then we all put on our winter gear and took to the hill ourselves--even the grandparents! Other than Clare and her cousin Kason both suffering from being run over by out of control sledders (both recovered fine I'm pleased to say) it was a really fun time. I don't think I will ever forget the sight of Grandma Jane, Grandpa Buck, Papa and Nana all having their turns sledding down the hill. To be honest, that made me more nervous than watching my own kids go down! If you head over to my sister-in-law Ester's blog at lifeisbeautiful-esse.blogspot.com, you can see more pictures and some videos too.
So now my youngest is four and reminds me that she is older everyday--not just in words but in personality too. She is such a fun kid to get to be a mom to and makes each day interesting and with laughter sprinkled throughout. Her name, Clare Ilisa, means "clear" and "illuminating" and she has remained true to those words. Thoughts, words and actions are done with purpose and intention and though she is little, her big personality lights up the darkest days. We are so proud of our Clare Bear and very thankful that God chose us to be her parents.